My secret is that Dave uses my deodorant. Apparently he ran out of his own a few months ago and tried mine in a pinch. But he quickly decided he prefers it to his own, so now he doesn't even have any deodorant: he just uses mine every day. It really is like that commercial from the early 80's: "strong enough for a man but made for a woman." I asked him if it made him feel pretty but he said no. I was glad.